Female Pick-up artist

Met a hot guy in the club and want to impress him?

2010-03-16T15:14:00.002+01:00

Follow this step. If done correctly the guy will beg you for your number.
NOTE: This only works on real, have-it together guys. It is also good to figure out who wants you for you and who is just looking for a hook-up with anyone.

1. DON'T KISS THE GUY. Even though he is begging, trying several times, and will do pretty much anything to kiss you, don't let him. Of course he wants to kiss you. That is step 1. You'll always want what you can't have. If this is a good-looking alltogether guy he should be used to girls wanting to kiss him. YOU ARE DIFFERENT! remember this. You are not just a girl at the club. You are special. Show him that. He will respect you more for this. How do I know this? Because I did it and the guy told me that he respects me much more for not kissing him.

2. TEASE AND FLIRT. Just because you are not kissing him doesn't mean you have to behave like a boring saint. Show him that you can be fun, interesting, smart and cute.

Tip: If he talks about his ex, or another girl it didn't work out with and he gives lame reason to why they broke up like: "I just needed to focus on my job", or "she wanted to move in and I wanted to travel next year" or something similar you say: "C'mon we both know thats just a male excuse which really means that you weren't that into her to begin with."...

He will agree on this....and feels like you get him better than the other girl did.

3. HAVE YOUR OWN THING. Its very important that you have your own hobby, school, project or whatever that you focus on. Its extremely attractive for guys to see that you are not depended on them, and they want automatically to be a part of that. It makes YOU more attractive!!

4. Sometime during your time together turn over to him, smile and say: "So, tell me something. What kind of girl do you respect?"

4. When he asks for your number, which he will, say with a smile: "hmmm you know I think its a waste of time giving my number to someone thats not gonna call........(pause)...., I only give my number to guys that have their act together. (If he is a pretty confident guy you can actually go so far as calling him a wuss, and ask him what he actually would say if he did have the guts to call).......After, you say this: "Besides, im pretty busy with work and stuff....

Trust me: He wont let you go before he has your number....

Good luck girls=)

Pick-up artist claming this Opener got him laid more than any other opener

2010-03-16T15:09:00.002+01:00

YOU: "Hey do you like horses?"

GIRL: ”HUH? ummm yea i guess."

YOU: "Hmm, I thought so. OK check this out, when I was in the 6th grade, there was this girl who loved horses. She used to run around the playground for an hour straight at lunchtime. She'd be galloping and making horse noises. We used to call her the weird horse girl."

GIRL: “Yeah, so?"

YOU: "well...you look JUST LIKE HER!"

Watch out for the kiss test ladies!!!

2009-06-06T20:57:00.003+02:00

Pick-up artists use The kiss test to find out if a girl wants to kiss them.
Here it is, written by a pua:

If I've been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she's ready to be kissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make a comment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it.

If she smiles and likes this, I'll reach back over and start stroking it again, but this time I also glance down at her lips and back up to her eyes a couple of times. If she lets me keep touching her hair, I know that she's ready to be kissed.

By using “The Kiss Test” I've been kind and complimentary, but by being very SUBTLE about it, I haven't given her anything she can object to. I now have a way of knowing if she's ready to be kissed that NEVER gets me rejected—and I know within 5 minutes what it used to take me hours or days to figure out...

Pick-up artist openers, closers and methods revealed!!!

2009-06-06T20:19:00.004+02:00

Hi! I've been doing a lot of research on pick-up artists lately, and I wanted to reveale one of the most common methods they are using. A female pick-up artist shouldn't just know how to attract any guy. She is a much more intriguing creature than that. Woman are masters of mind games, and even though men have the impression that THEY are controlling the world. We know better.

These are some of the topics you'll learn about which are used by pick-up artists, which will give us an advantage in the field:
*push/pull factor
*The kiss test
* Quick Physical progression stack
*Tequila Shot game
* Brain surgeon routine
* Back tickle conspiracy

Female comebacks to men's pickup lines!

2009-05-20T01:12:00.001+02:00

I found this comebacks on a site and I thought that they were awesome:

*Man:*Haven't I seen you someplace before?

*Woman:*Yes, that's why I don't go there anymore.

*Man:*Is this seat empty?

*Woman:*Yes, and this one will be if you sit down.

*Man:*Your place or mine?

*Woman:*Both. You go to yours, and I'll go to mine.

*Man:*So, what do you do for a living?

*Woman:*I'm a female impersonator.

*Man:*Hey baby, what's your sign?

*Woman:*Do not enter.

*Man:*How do you like your eggs in the morning?

*Woman:*Unfertilized

*Man:*Your body is like a temple.

*Woman:*Sorry, there are no services today.

*Man:*I would go to the end of the world for you.

*Woman:*But would you stay there?

*Man:*If I could see you naked, I'd die happy.

*Woman:*If I saw you naked, I'd probably die laughing.

How to find out if he likes you?

2009-05-20T00:50:00.004+02:00

The wrong way is asking him. Never do that!!!! Its a stupid idea, unless you are almost 100 percent sure he does like you. Anyway, it could be an akward situation.

This is what you should do if you wanna find out:
Make a move, not kissing or anything like that. Make a subtle move. A subtle move is casual touching, moving you body towards him or looking into his eyes a bit longer.
If the other person doesn’t pull back, or show you the same type of gestures as you showed him then he is interested.
But if he does pull back from you, and looking for some space he is just not interested.

Attraction-killers and 3 ways to be irresistible to a man

2009-05-20T00:36:00.005+02:00

*When you are talking to him for the first time:
DON’T ASK HIM WHAT HE DOES…:’” SO, WHAT DO YOU DO.?”….DON’T SAY IT!!! You will be as predictable as any other girl he has ever met.

*Never say this to the guy you are attracted to:
“Im bored”
It only shows that you are a boring person, and he will think that the only reason you are talking to him is because you have nothing better to do.

* Don't talk too much. That can be a huge attraction killer.

3 ways to be irresistible to a man

Tip #1: Show Him You're The Opposite Of Needy

In case you didn't know, it's important to
understand why a man can see you as needy,
even when you're not.

Did you know that a woman doesn't actually have
to actually BE needy for a man to get that icky
feeling inside that tells him "RUN!" when he's
around her?

The ways you share your feelings and lend
emotional support to your girlfriends can bond
your friendship, but that kind of "talking" and
intimacy can actually make a man feel ANXIOUS AND
SMOTHERED by you.

Some examples of this are asking a man such
things as, "why didn't you call yesterday?" or
"aren't we going to see each other this weekend?"

Don't go there if you want to keep the
attraction going.

A man will want more with you if he can sense
that you're focused on enjoying and celebrating
the time you ARE spending together.

Rather than you feeling and accidentally
communicating to him that you're scared or
uncertain about the time you're NOT SPENDING
together - which is guaranteed to make a strong,
independent man pull back.

A way to make this simple is this...

Focus your attention not on when or how much
TIME you're spending together.

Men don't care or value things about a woman
based on TIME (the way lots of women do).

Instead, focus on creating the situations, the
moments, and the experiences that are sure to have
him WANTING more from you.

When you do this, you won't have to worry
or ask for more... because he'll constantly be
coming towards you and looking for more.

Tip #2: Be Different Than Other Women

A man loves being around a woman who has more
to talk about than the boring everyday stuff.

Talking to him about things like problems at
work, errands you have to do this weekend, how
tired you feel, what you had for lunch, etc. all
lead to the same uninspired feeling -

Plain old BOREDOM.

When you meet a man, asking him what he does
for a living or talking about your job is also
boring.

It's what every OTHER woman does.

If you call a man you've been out with, and you
start telling him all about some problem or tough
situation you're having in your life before he
knows you very well, it's not only boring to him -
it's also a little much for the first few go-
rounds.

It's what all the other women did who were
the WRONG WOMAN for him.

If you want to meet and attract a very
"together" guy who has a lot going for him,
including looks and brains, then you have to
STAND OUT from the crowd.

You cannot be BORING and PREDICTABLE.

Men who are attractive enough to be sought
after have seen and heard it all from women. And
they'll VERY QUICKLY lose interest if you talk
the same way as 98% of the other women they've
met.

But...

A man will LOVE being around you if you
communicate a love for and enjoyment of life, and
bring a unique and UPBEAT ENERGY that shows
you have fun and interesting things OF YOUR OWN
going on.

This will set you APART from every other woman
a man knows.

And it will make him want to spend more and
more time with you.

The women a man is looking to AVOID are the
women looking for a man to fill their life and
make it more interesting and fun.

The woman a man can't help but FALL FOR is the
woman who is already doing great things in her
own life which naturally attract him into
wanting to be more a part of it.

The question is...

What are you doing in YOUR OWN LIFE that a man
would want to be a part of?

Or are you looking for a life with a man?

Tip #3: Don't Be Predictable

If a man has no idea what you'll do or say
next, he's MUCH more likely to constantly think
and wonder about you.

What does this mean? This means that if you
know to create a level of unpredictability so that
he is constantly pleasantly surprised by you, it
will work like magic to trigger his attraction.

For example, instead of thinking or feeling so
seriously all the time with men when you have
something you want to say... use humor and
teasing when possible.

These 2 things are like MAGIC GLUE with a man
that will make him want to stick with you.

One fun and simple thing you can do is this-

Tell a man the exact OPPOSITE of what you're
really thinking, but smile when you say it.

"I can't stand you." (wink)

"You look awful in that shirt." (smirk)

"Too bad you're no fun." (grin)

Men love this kind of playful flirting.

Why?

Because rather than just complimenting a man
or gushing about your feelings, you're creating
some playful TENSION.

And tension creates a great energy that a man
will want more of.
It's predictable that if you like a man, and
you're looking for a relationship for you to say,

"I think you're a great guy, and I'm looking
for a serious relationship and life partnership."

Not so exciting in the grand scheme of things-
although it's heartfelt.

It's fun and UNPREDICTABLE to instead say,

"You know, I'm not so sure about you. (wink)
I'll guess I'll have to wait and see if you're
worthy of what I can share. (smile)"

This kind of thing drives a man wild on several
levels beyond just his Physical Attraction.

One a basic level, men love to be teased by
women they want.

Teasing works so well for women who use it
as an alternative to being so serious because
it is one of the primary male languages for
BONDING AND CONNECTION.

You have probably seen this yourself.

Think about all the weird nicknames your guy
has for his friends, and how they like to crack
jokes and make (good-hearted) fun of each other.

Guys love it when you don't take yourself too
seriously.

On the other hand, men usually lose interest
in a relationship when things get TOO PREDICTIBLE,
TOO SERIOUS, or just TOO BORING and the woman is
no longer the radiant, upbeat, fun-loving,
energetic woman who he was attracted to in the
first place.

Bottom line: Men will become restless and
uncertain when they stop feeling that gut-level
attraction for you physically and emotionally.

It's a huge part of what bonds a man to you.

That's why it's important to know what to do
to trigger those feelings to keep the spark alive
and healthy in your relationship.

Not your boyfriend but sleeping with him? Want something more?

2009-05-20T00:31:00.001+02:00

Say, "I really like you. Probably too much to
be JUST friends. This is why I'm not sure we should
continue this situation unless you feel the same way."

If you can say this in a way that doesn't include
BLAME or guilt or pressure from you, it the response
a man will give will be MAGICAL.
He'll open up and meet you at the level of
honesty and respect you're coming at him with.
And as tough and as "bitchy" or self-centered
doing this might sound right now, this is exactly
what you need to say to a man if you really want
something more with him.

Back from the City of Love

2009-04-09T17:59:00.002+02:00

We're back from an amazing trip. The weather was great and the city treated us like celebreties and of course we loved it. But most importantly: no destruction of french boy. I hade some time thinking and I finally realized that the point of being a FPUA is not to fall in love but to use the boys the way you want to. They are toys, toys to be played with. We all know we can buy the toys in a shop but what's funny with a toy without the chase, drama and rumors? A toy with batteries that do exactly the same every day. We want something new, something challenging and something unexpected. We want a toyboy with all the extras.

I really found my self in India and that made me think that it's important to really find yourself. You should never try to be someone else but of course you can learn from others and pick up a few things that can help you to become who you really are. Observe yourself and find the things you like best. Then you should spend more time to show the rest of the world the best parts of you. Confidence is attractive. then you can observe others and find some things you like about how they behave and try to do it your own way with the parts of your behaving that you don't like the best. I say this because there will always be things we don't like with our selves so try to focus on what you like and what you see your friends likes about you.

My life-rule: Everything will be good in the end. You just have to look on the bright side of life. Turn the bad things into something positive. If you can't see it right away you just have to wait and eventually you'll see it. Maybe it made you stronger, maybe it helped you to find you or maybe you just got a lesson in life.

So girls, keep up the good work and enjoy life the way you want to and the way you deserve to. Take some chances and live your life. The spring is here and the boys are ready to become your playboy. Use all what you've got and be the best FPUA ever. Let the game begin.
xoxo Rose

How to make sure he calls you back

2009-02-11T17:14:00.006+01:00

This is probably the biggest problem girls have when they go out. Let me know if this sounds familiar. You go out, you meet a great guy, have a great time, he seems very interested, and maybe you even kiss and exchange number. You feel great about this night. You go home and tell your friends about him. You are sure he is gonna call. You wait 1 day. nothing. 2 days. nothing. 3 days. no you are starting to feel frustrated. 1 week. You slowly realise he is not gonna call you.

You are a girl so of course you analyse the whole damn situation and come to the conclusion that:
A) he is too scared to call you. B) he got what he wanted that night and doesn't want you anymore. c) some other balderdash you cooked together in your mind...

This is what you have to do to make him call you. I can thank Christian Carter for this piece of advice. Christian. You are amazing. This works every time. If you DON'T do this he is not going to call you.

Here comes the advice:

YOU HAVE TO GIVE HIM AN EXCITING REASON TO CALL YOU.

This doesn't mean that you should say: here is my number, call me! and expect him to actually do that cause he won't unless he is very desperate.....believe me I know....

If you personally have problems giving him an exciting reason to call you, you can say something like this:......oh, I'll gotta run...get back to you on that..

How to give your circumcised bf a handjob?

2009-02-08T21:24:00.003+01:00

Because there is a lot of boys out there who is circumcised.
Well, after some experience I can tell you what to do! When the boy is circumcised he has no concern on his penishead. When I first realized this (was the first time I saw it and had to handle it right away!) I got shocked and the first thing popping up in my head was: What the hell am I supposed to do now? There is nothing to do! and then I panicked, of course, because we all want to be good and to know what to do. Thanks to that boy I now know what to do and how to handle it. It's actually easy. Just take a nice and good grip a bit further down and not so you stretch the skin on the head and then just do what you usually do, go up and down, slow or fast. But whatever you do just don't try to move the skin on the penishead because that is going to hurt him really bad, unless that's exactly what you want. Or you can just ask him.
And what about sex? As you understand I don't call a handjob sex, or a blowjob or anything else like that. Sex for me is intercourse; penis inside vagina. So, he has actually lost some of the feeling on the penishead and that makes it a bit harder to make him come, or at least for some of the boys. But don't worry he just need a little more time. It's almost like giving yourself a little treat: a longer and even hotter foreplay! Or maybe it's just that extra time you need to come as well;)
Good luck girls!
xoxo Rose

"The City of Love" coming soon...

2009-02-08T20:59:00.002+01:00

Liquid and I have had a weekly dinner now for some weeks and I love it. We get to talk about our week, the coming weekends and boys - our favourite topic! This dinner I had something to tell her, something not so nice and of course it was about a boy. But first I have to start from the begining of the story. For a long time ago I told you guys about this amazing french boy (btw he is still amazing!) and a lot has happend since then. He and I hooked up for a little while until I met his gorgeous friend. This friend became my favourite fuckfriend! OMG, I love that word. No obligations! He was going back to his country and the city of love in only one month, so we made that month the best we could. When he left he made me a promise: to wait for me until I visited him (first sign of him being a crazy boy, why didn't I get that?!). Good promise and a good excuse to go to the city of love to make passionate love over a bottle (or two) of wine. I have to say that I never made that promise! I convinced Liquid to come with me and we booked our trip and a nice hotel (I was not planning on using it but he was not going to believe that I actually just came to see him!).
And here comes what I had to tell Liquid: Some days ago he sent me a message telling me he had met someone else (who does that after convincing me to come and visit?). I was actually about to fall for this boy and I thought he was really nice to me and that we were getting serious, but no. We were not.
So now Liquid and I are going to destroy him, piece by piece until he's nothing and he has lost everything. I'm going to act, as a friend said it to me, like "don'tcareforfuckness". I will not show emotions at all, I'm carefree. I will tell him he was just a toy and, this is important girls: that "a good orgasm is the same all over the world" and now I just have to find me an other tool/toy.
The famous trip to the city of love is going to be awsome! And about the hotel, well I guess we have to use it the real way;)
xoxo Rose

how to outstand from the crowd

2009-02-01T22:27:00.009+01:00

In a world where girls fight to get a guys attention its important to look different than your competitions. And not just in how you look, but behave, act, and talk. Sure, if you just wanna score with a guy for one night its not a big deal that you look like the rest of 'em, but if you want a guy to see you for something more then it is important.

Remember, attraction isn't logical. It just is.
Fact: Attraction can be created, but not forced. Remember this. Its important.
You can't tell a guy in a logical way why he should fall in love with you. Its just something he has to feel. Its not something you can explain to him if you know what I mean. Now, lets talk clothes. I've heard many different things from guys. What they like and don't like. If you think they wanna see you in a mini-skirt and a short pink tube-top when its ten degrees outside think again...

I had a long conversation with a guy about this particular topic. This is what I've figured out. Most guys like simple stuff. For example black. Black is a great color, because it doesn't matter if you weigh 10 pounds or 500. Its a sexy color, and I still haven't met a girl that doesn't look good in black. But a lot of girls wear black...so how do you outstand? I always wear a piece of acessories that draws a bit attention. Something a guy will notice even in the dark. Something a bit shimmery or big. And it must be something cool that makes him wanna comment on it if ya know what I mean. Red, pink or other feminine colors are also great, but not too much. Keep yourself simple and elegant. I've noticed something. Cool doesn't work as well as sexy.
We like to dress ourselves "cool" but its easier to get a guy if you dress "sexy".

Note: Sexy is not the same as slutty. You can cover yourself up pretty good and still look damn sexy. Think about it.

But if you really want a guy to respond to you. This works very well. He will at least comment on this. If you wear a dress you have nowhere to put your cellphone. It sucks to carry around a stupid purse. So you put your cell-phone in your bra.....when someone sends you a message or something you take it out. The guy will definetely respond to that.Its not everyday you pull out something from your bra...and this is not a negative attention-seeking way either. A guy doesn't think you are slutty for doing this. He will just be surprised. thats all.....and voila...you have a conversation-starter......

What NOT to do if you wanna get him back

2009-01-29T11:30:00.004+01:00

First of all:
*Do NOT call him
*Do NOT e-mail him
*Do NOT text-message him
*Do NOT fax him
*Do NOT for pete's sake stalk him
* Do NOT show up "accidentaly" where he is
* Do NOT make out with another guy or do other stuff to make him jealous

If you are serious about wanting him back then believe me when I say. None of these are going to work. I know that because I have probably done them all.
One thing I do know is that you can't force a man to be with you, no matter how much you wished that were true. A guy doesn't want to be with a girl that he is only physically attracted to. Yes, you can be drop-dead gorgeous, but no guy will be comitted to you in the long term. He must be attracted to you emotionally first. After that he will beg you to commit to him.
How do I make him commit to me in the long term ?you may ask.
Well you CAN'T do this:

* TRYING TO CONVINCE HIM: telling him why he should want to be in a relationship with you. "Well, you know I have a good job, I'm beautiful, smart."...Just give it a break. Love doesn't work like that. The more you are trying to convince , the more he will withdraw. No convincing. Got it? good.

*TRADING: If you start "withholding yourself" from a man when you don't get the love and connection you want, or you only "give " when you get", youre trading. It keeps you from the thing you want and creates resentment and distrust inside a man's mind.

*GIVING HIM AN "ULTIMATUM": While giving your man an ultimatum will definitely get you an answer, when you put a guy on the spot like this, it usually WON’T be the answer you want. Pressure does NOT change people’s FEELINGS. Especially when it comes to a man’s often stubborn and unexplored emotions.
In fact, often times HE doesn’t even know exactly what he’s feeling, because he hasn’t spent much, or any, time “analyzing” everything on an emotional level. So, how in the world is he supposed to explain to you how he feels, what that means and how that translates into your relationship in the moment?

Think about that for a second.

How to NOT fall in love with a guy

2009-01-28T10:03:00.003+01:00

Tired of falling in love in the wrong guy? Tired of beeing played by another schmack? He told you he liked you, and you slept with him? You thought it was something more than just a casual fling? You told him you wanted more, and he pulled back. He stopped calling you, and persuaing you like he did before. You didn't understand what you did wrong. You shred a lot of tears for this guy, and he just didn't care....well, enough of that. STOP IT RIGHT NOW!!!! YES YOU...!!!
Now, calm down and take a deep breath. This is what I want you to do. Go to the mirror, and take a loooong, deeep loook at yourself. Do you like what you see? Be honest now....
Now, ask yourself three questions:
*Am I satisfied with the way I look?
*Am I satisfied with my body?
* Am I happy?

If you answered No to one of these questions or all of them. Tell yourself what you want to change. Let me tell you something. That box of ice-cream you are eating, or the chocolate you are thinking of eating is not gonna make you better. It is gonna make you worse. Now..just listen to me....THROW IT AWAY-....AND DO IT NOW...I'll give you ten seconds..10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1...I hope you did it. It is for your own good. Throw away everything thats going to taste good in the moment but after a while will make you feel terrible. Feel better now? You just made a huge step now for giving yourself a better life. Don't believe me? You will.
Now, I want you to put on your training-clothes. Don't feel like working out? me either...But you will feel a lot better after..I promise. Now, you can choose if you wanna go for an hour walk, if you wanna run for 30 min, maybe go swimming. If you hate to sweat. I will absolutely recommend swimming. Absolutely.

The reason for me wanting you to do that is for you to feel better about yourself. When you feel like you are good-looking others will notice it. After your work-out I want you to fix your nails, brush your teeth, fix your toes, shave your legs, fix your eyebrows and put on a facial-mask, and take a good, long shower. Why you need to do all that you may ask. Well....let me put it down for you easy and simple.
The easiest way to NOT fall in love with ONE guy, is to date several guys. When you have options its not so easy to fall for the first schmack that hits on you.
And to attract several guys you need to have confidence, and feel good about yourself. How in the hell can you do that when you lie on the sofa eating ice-cream all day long. THIS IS A REALITY CHECK....
You have to pull yourself together first. Having control is attractive, having knowledge is attractive, and having a life is very attractive. You need to have that settled first before you can do anything else....

Whats gonna happen next

2009-01-28T09:43:00.002+01:00

Important topics.
I have realised after a while that there are many, many topics about sex, relationship and guys that girls really, really wants to know. Every week I will give you a list of topics that will be discussed by our girl-power crew, and revealed right here on the blog. This weeks topic is:

*How to not fall in love with a guy. Play him before he plays you...
* What NOT to do if you wanna get him back.
*How to outstand from the crowd.
*How to make sure he calls you back.
*What to wear when you are going out if you want more than a one-night stand.

We are back

2009-01-27T14:06:00.003+01:00

After a long, cold winter I am back to give you the lastest update. This is the short version.
Star is currently leaving Norway for a couple of months. Destination: FAR, FAR AWAY.
Rose is also travelling a lot, but she is dating a couple of guys like always. Too busy living to settle down, and currently it doesn't exist one thing that can capture her attention long enough anyway.

WARNING TO ALL GUYS: DON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH ROSE. She is the kind of girl that all guys love, until they fall in love and realise they can't have her.
Note: beautiful really means dangerous. She is also the kind of girl that most of us other girls want to be. Just having fun, and worry about the consequences later.
I am on the other hand recovered from a guy that I wanted to be with more than anything else. That is not healthy. I haven't talked to him in a long while, and that is a good thing. Instead my attention is circulating around 2 other guys. The first one is Adam. I am sorta dating him. He is really smart and cool. The other guy....well.......we are just friends........but I am positive that he wants something more.......
We'll see whats gonna happen at the end of the week...

Love Liquid

Fpuas story 2: the confusion part 1

2008-10-02T01:09:00.008+02:00

The year is 2008. Another summer is over, and it was filled with love, friendship, adventures and not to mention hot guys. Me and Star decided to visit a beautiful Island filled with great food, cute guys and a fabulous beach. We were really loooking forward to this trip considering we planned it 6 months ahead, or not really planned it just buying plane-tickets:)
When the trip was over, it was better than we ever thought it would be.

When we first arrived at the greek Island, few other people had arrived. We were pretty much alone so we enjoyed ourselves by smoking cigars, playing cards and drink with roses brother and his friend. It was kinda hilarious. Listening to some music as well.

After a few days people started showing up, and the adventure begun. The thing that hit me the most was the age-difference. The people there were either 30,40,50 or under 20. It was only greek guys at our age, so me and rose got bored and decided to try our luck at the greek bar. We felt kinda stupid walking into a bar filled with greek guys staring at us, but we couldn't care less. Yes, it was crowded and small but how can I say this: We didn't fucking care!!
After a few shot in the bar we noticed a familiar guy. He was tall, dark and pretty good-looking. Star couldn't stop looking at him thinking one year ago they were glued into eachother. It was pretty hot too...but she wondered if he recognized her. A lot could happen in a year you know...

After he passed her and started talking to another girl, two other greek guys noticed us. They came over and kinda forced us to dance greek-dance with them. I passed making some stupid excuse that I had to finish my drink first. Star on the other hand wasn't so good with excuses so she joined, trying to keep up with the guys, even though she's never danced that kinda dance before. I laughed at her and took another sip of my drink. Her eyes glanced at me, begging to be rescued. I had my share of amusement and didn't bother much about rescuing her.

A few seconds after Karma caught up on me, one of the greek guys, the not so good-looking one forced me on the dancefloor. I didn't have much of a choice this time. I tried to keep up but felt pretty stupid doing so...the greek guys didn't care. They loved this kinda intimiate dancing, and gave me and star some kinda greek liquid that we drank. It was stars time to have her share of amusement, watching me dancing with the guys. It was three of them. The first one had dark hair, and looked sorta like a teddybear according to Star. I would rather say he reminded me of a hairy gorilla but I kept my opinion to myself, and let Star live with her illusion that he looked like a teddybear. "A ugly teddybear that is". Teddybears friend Mr. Yellow also had fun surrounding us, especially me. Later we found out he was bisexual, or we think he is since someone saw him making out with a guy. The third guy that danced with us. He was probably jealous or something.

After half an hour or so the guys wanted us to join them and go somewhere else. We had enough of their company and decided to ditch them, since we had no plans of getting raped behind some bush. We told them we were going to meet some friends at another club nearby:Bed. We went there but we had no idea they were going to show up there as well.......

Sex and the City

2008-09-16T22:01:00.001+02:00

Hi, I’m Rose. I was watching Sex in the City last night and got inspired, so now I have to tell you one of my little stories.
The first week at university I met this gorgeous French boy. Tall, dark and handsome (O.K., maybe not that tall, but extremelt handsome). He actually wrote down his e-mail on a piece of paper (who writes down their e-mail on a piece of paper in this modern world anymore? Cute!) and gave it to me. I sent him an e-mail and invited him to a party the next weekend. We went out to a nightclub, called after surfing equipment, to dance and get something to drink. At the club we danced all night long, he was such a good dancer! I have never ever met a boy that’s good at dancing, but this French boy, woah! We were dancing close and teased about whether to kiss or not. We ended up not (have to follow some of the rules, so never kiss a guy the first time you meet him if you want it to be something more, Liquid will explain more about this later). After this night I haven’t heard from him. But today I met him! And he kissed me on my cheeks (old-fashioned!) and we had a little chat before I had to go to class (God, he’s sooo good looking!). So I wrote an e-mail to the correct e-mail (found out he hadn’t replied my first e-mail because he had never gotten it. So glad he showed up at the party after all) and he answered me right away! He said so nice things to me. I’m back in the game! If you have any tips you think I may need, please, tell me. We’re all still learning.

This was my first little story to tell, but there is many more. Back to the episode of Sex and the City I saw last night, I learnt something from Carrie. She admits her mistakes (towards guys) to her friends and then she can learn what she did wrong, and next time she’ll get it right. “It’s a short way from being understandable to being miserable.” Carrie. It’s all about this fine, fine balance, in all parts of life, but especially here at FPUA. Don’t do too much, but make him want to get to know you. Tease, but not too much, reject, but not so he’ll leave you, be interested, but not a stalker. Always say the right things (that’s how easy it is, yeah, right). Practice, practice, practice. Don’t be afraid to do mistakes, just go for it. The more confidence you put in your work, the better it’s going to work.
Rose<3

Fpuas story: The pilot part 2

2008-09-16T10:46:00.003+02:00

It was no misundertanding. I was standing outside with Alec, completely upset. Everything Star and Confidence was working with all morning, to get my ass cheerful, was waisted. The only thing that made me snap back to reality was my beautiful earring falling down from my ear, hit the hard, wet ground, and break into thousand pieces. This was enough. I was going to have fun rest of the evening and not think about my so-called ex-boyfriend. I went to the VIP-section with Star where we saw some familiar faces. It was D'angelo, and his friends.

D'angelo was the kind of guy I will like to call a player. He prefers one-night stands, a quick fuck, and doesn't mind threesome after what I've heard. But he is a sweet guy, that likes to have his amusements, and doesn't mind wearing pink in public. Did I mention he is rich?

Nevermind him so much, it was his friend that got my attention. He played with my hair like I was a wet and lonely cat, looking for love and someone to feel my hair. I remember one thing: My hair looked pretty fucked-up that evening, and that was the look I preferred, pretty huge and full of hairspray. He also commented on it, and said I didn't need all that. Then he left giving me a sort of warm vibration floating threw my body....For the first time all night I was thinking about someone else than my ex....

Fpuas story: the pilot part 1

2008-09-15T02:26:00.010+02:00

My name is Liquid. I am in the beginning in my twenties, just like my two friends Rose and Star. We are all in college and struggling in our own way...

Rose is a happy blond girl that likes teasing guys more than anything. She goes from one guy to another, but unfortunately it never lasts. What was interesting in the beginning is not anymore. Time passes by, things changes and she gets bored. This is how it at least was last year. She changed now, calmed down and she is not fooling so much anymore. At least less than she did. Which was a lot:)

Star on the other hand is the serious type. She works hard, but still likes to have fun. She'll follow you anywhere as long it is fun. She is a short brunette, but will still have the loudest voice in the crowd. A couple of months ago she fell inlove with a close friend, John. Afraid of her feelings she didn't do anything. He was to big of a wuss to act, and now Star is here alone and talking about how sweet Johns new girlfriend is, which is a lot of bulls*** if ya ask me.

I, on the other hand don't really know where to start. I'll think I start at the end of my first real relationship, and the beginning of a completely different world.

Just before christmas year 2007 I got a really disturbing phone-call. "Its not working anymore" It was my boyfriend that called to break-up with me. 18 months, thats how long we've been together. And over the phone too....Didn't I deserve something better than a stupid phone call? clearly not. I was devastated. I did love him....but I knew in my heart that it didn't work. He just didn't have the time for me. Thats what he said at least. I didn't buy it off course.

The same week a party was coming up in a well-known club, named after a bug. I knew that my boyfriends bestfriend was going to be there, and for some reason my plan was this:
I was going to buy a killer-dress, look damn hot so that Alec, my boyfriends bestfriend would call him immediately and tell him what a fool his been. For some reason this sounded like a great plan at the time.

Same day as the party, Star, Confidence and I went to the biggest shopping-mall in the city and bought some killer-looking outfits and some great piece of jewlery to match. We got all dressed up, and even though I was really depressed thinking about my ex, at least I had some great friends trying to cheer me up. When we arrived at the club I remember looking pretty good considering that several of my friends where shocked that I actually could look so hot. We went to the dancefloor and danced a bit. While I was dancing with Star and John I couldn't help noticing a new guy entering the dancefloor, greeting the group behind me. He was a perfect ten! He noticed me pretty quickly too, since he came over 5 seconds after and started dancing with me. We danced a bit but I didn't pay much attention to him considering I was thinking about my ex all damn night. I think he noticed my absence since he went over to his friends after a while, giving up on me...

Later on, I saw Alec and we went outside to get some air and talk. I told him what happened and he was acting as a good friend and supported me. He also said he was going to talk to my ex, because he couldn't believe that he actually broke up with me. Alec was sure it was just a misunderstanding. But was it?

Find a guy that...

2008-09-10T20:51:00.000+02:00

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'”

Sex and the city column

2008-09-10T15:09:00.004+02:00

Hi! I thought it would be fun to hear more about my, Rose and Stars life in a sex and the city column-way. We will tell you about our guy-stuff in a fun and entertaining way. Everythings real! Hope you will enjoy this!

Lot of Love from Liquid:)

Female Pick-up artist: Awesome Live Pick-up

2008-09-10T15:08:00.000+02:00

Female Pick-up artist: Awesome Live Pick-up

Openers

2008-09-09T22:53:00.004+02:00

What can I say to get his attention?
I have provided several openers that have worked very well for me and others.

* Hi! I thought I'll come over and introduce myself.

* Hi! My and my friend over there (point at your friend) just had a debate here. Who do you think lies the most? Men or Women? (This works very well. I had a nice and long debate with a guy. We came to the conclusion that it was 50-50. It ended with him giving me his number:)

* Hi! You look like a real challenge. Whatcha think about girls with confidence?

* Hi! What do you think about girls that make the first move?

To be used when guys are in groups ( Me and rose used this one 2 weeks ago. worked like a charm:))

* Hi! Why is it so that (three) guys are standing here all alone with no girls?

This last pick-up can be used any time and is very original:
First you walk up to a guy and say: "I need some help". He answers: "What can I help you with?" You respond: "I wanted to approach you and meet you but I didn’t know how to do that. Can you help me?" Most likely he will smile by this comment.

I have many more, also pick-ups at day-time. They are the most difficult one. But enjoy this for now. I'll write more later

Awesome Live Pick-up

2008-09-07T19:41:00.003+02:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aNTNdRMNLM

This is the craziest Pick-up I've ever seen. Watch it and enjoy:)

-Liquid

This is just a funny you-tube video about two guys wanting to become mysterys wingmen. Its just to make you laugh.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IaLJTznxuQ0

How to get his number

2008-09-07T16:23:00.008+02:00

When you have a guys attention and you are interested in getting to know him better under somewhat other circumstances than at the nr 1 pick-up scene the clubs, many girls don’t know what to do. Way too many just wait for him to ask for your number, but why cant we take the situation in our own hands?? I can’t see any reason why not....

If you are sure that a guy will call you, you can do this routine. (Only to be used if you meet him at a bar, club etcetc)
When you and the guy are about to say goodbye, you say: I am giving you 2 choices. The first is that you can take my number so that you can contact me so that we can meet each other under the right circumstances. Your second choice is that you can leave and forget all about me.
Other option for 2 choice: You can meet me tomorrow at some club (choose some location) at midnight.
If he says he'll come and meet you tomorrow: You say: Don't be late, and bye the way: yes I am worth it. Then you smile at him, turn around and leave.

If the guy asks for your number

When the guy asks for you number he will probably give you his phone so you can type in your number. When he does this. If you are not sure if he will contact you, like so many doesn't you can dial in your number and then call it. Then you will have his number as well.
If he wonders why you did that, you say this: So that I can know if it is you, so that I won’t believe that you are one of those who never calls. If you are one of those guys you can say it now so that I can delete my number right away. Because I don’t give my number to that kind of guys.

If he changes the subject after you giving him the offers, be patient, he will ask for your number eventually. And if he doesn’t it is his loss. Life goes on and he wouldn’t have been mister right any way J
We will come back with more number fixers when we have tested them out. Until then get out there and have fun. Love star*

How to start beeing a Female Pick-up artist

2008-09-05T02:15:00.003+02:00

1. Talking. Start talking with everyone you know and don't know. Ask about things you already know the answer to just to contain conversation. Don't be afraid to make a fool of yourself.

2. Smile. One of the most important things is to SMILE. Smile all the time, show the world that you are a happy creature, and they will respond back. People will notice your new energy-field that has ultimate power, believe it or not.

3. Clothing. You don't need to look like a prom-queen every single day, but think about what you wear. By dressing good, you will starting feeling better by yourself, in other words: if you feel more attracted in your own eyes, this will give you more confidence and you will be even more attracted in the eyes of others. If you are wondering what to wear I've heard that guys like simple stuff.

4.Change environment. Do something new. Get a new hobby, do some volunteer- work. Just change environment that gives you the chance to interact with new people.

5. Practice. This is a game that needs a lot of practice. You must learn to handle rejection, but in the end you will learn to master it. You go girl!

liquid

2008-08-31T23:03:00.001+02:00

The Game

2008-08-31T02:47:00.001+02:00

Hi!
My name is Liquid and for years I've been gathering material to understand the art of pick-up. I am like most girls trying to find a guy that will give me the head-over-heels feeling and rock my world completely upside down. But why wait for him to show up? We live in a modern world, right? Its our time to take charge girls. Don't be afraid. Without sacrifice there is no gaining.
Let me ask you a question:
Have you ever met a guy that had something mysterious about him, and you couldn't help beeing drawn to him, but you didn't know what to say or do to make him feel the same way? Would you like to know what to do, say and act in front of him? I'll help you. Every week I 'll give you an update on different dating-situations including what to say, what not to say, who to avoid...etcetc...We will base everything on real life situations in the field. Hope you find this helpful.
If you have any questions about dating, guys or relationships, me and my two female-wings Rose and Star will be more than happy to help you. Until then, take care and good luck girls:)