In a world where girls fight to get a guys attention its important to look different than your competitions. And not just in how you look, but behave, act, and talk. Sure, if you just wanna score with a guy for one night its not a big deal that you look like the rest of 'em, but if you want a guy to see you for something more then it is important.
Remember, attraction isn't logical. It just is.
Fact: Attraction can be created, but not forced. Remember this. Its important.
You can't tell a guy in a logical way why he should fall in love with you. Its just something he has to feel. Its not something you can explain to him if you know what I mean. Now, lets talk clothes. I've heard many different things from guys. What they like and don't like. If you think they wanna see you in a mini-skirt and a short pink tube-top when its ten degrees outside think again...
Remember, attraction isn't logical. It just is.
Fact: Attraction can be created, but not forced. Remember this. Its important.
You can't tell a guy in a logical way why he should fall in love with you. Its just something he has to feel. Its not something you can explain to him if you know what I mean. Now, lets talk clothes. I've heard many different things from guys. What they like and don't like. If you think they wanna see you in a mini-skirt and a short pink tube-top when its ten degrees outside think again...
I had a long conversation with a guy about this particular topic. This is what I've figured out. Most guys like simple stuff. For example black. Black is a great color, because it doesn't matter if you weigh 10 pounds or 500. Its a sexy color, and I still haven't met a girl that doesn't look good in black. But a lot of girls wear black...so how do you outstand? I always wear a piece of acessories that draws a bit attention. Something a guy will notice even in the dark. Something a bit shimmery or big. And it must be something cool that makes him wanna comment on it if ya know what I mean. Red, pink or other feminine colors are also great, but not too much. Keep yourself simple and elegant. I've noticed something. Cool doesn't work as well as sexy.
We like to dress ourselves "cool" but its easier to get a guy if you dress "sexy".
Note: Sexy is not the same as slutty. You can cover yourself up pretty good and still look damn sexy. Think about it.
But if you really want a guy to respond to you. This works very well. He will at least comment on this. If you wear a dress you have nowhere to put your cellphone. It sucks to carry around a stupid purse. So you put your cell-phone in your bra.....when someone sends you a message or something you take it out. The guy will definetely respond to that.Its not everyday you pull out something from your bra...and this is not a negative attention-seeking way either. A guy doesn't think you are slutty for doing this. He will just be surprised. thats all.....and voila...you have a conversation-starter......
We like to dress ourselves "cool" but its easier to get a guy if you dress "sexy".
Note: Sexy is not the same as slutty. You can cover yourself up pretty good and still look damn sexy. Think about it.
But if you really want a guy to respond to you. This works very well. He will at least comment on this. If you wear a dress you have nowhere to put your cellphone. It sucks to carry around a stupid purse. So you put your cell-phone in your bra.....when someone sends you a message or something you take it out. The guy will definetely respond to that.Its not everyday you pull out something from your bra...and this is not a negative attention-seeking way either. A guy doesn't think you are slutty for doing this. He will just be surprised. thats all.....and voila...you have a conversation-starter......
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