This is probably the biggest problem girls have when they go out. Let me know if this sounds familiar. You go out, you meet a great guy, have a great time, he seems very interested, and maybe you even kiss and exchange number. You feel great about this night. You go home and tell your friends about him. You are sure he is gonna call. You wait 1 day. nothing. 2 days. nothing. 3 days. no you are starting to feel frustrated. 1 week. You slowly realise he is not gonna call you.You are a girl so of course you analyse the whole damn situation and come to the conclusion that:
A) he is too scared to call you. B) he got what he wanted that night and doesn't want you anymore. c) some other balderdash you cooked together in your mind...
This is what you have to do to make him call you. I can thank Christian Carter for this piece of advice. Christian. You are amazing. This works every time. If you DON'T do this he is not going to call you.
Here comes the advice:
YOU HAVE TO GIVE HIM AN EXCITING REASON TO CALL YOU.
This doesn't mean that you should say: here is my number, call me! and expect him to actually do that cause he won't unless he is very desperate.....believe me I know....
If you personally have problems giving him an exciting reason to call you, you can say something like this:......oh, I'll gotta run...get back to you on that..
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About getting a guy to call you back. I've been having the same problem! I was talking to my Male PUA friend and he said "B, you need to create an anchor, a REASON for him to call. what, is he going to call you the next day and say 'hi, this is the guy you made out with at the bar last night what's up? No!"
So you are absolutely right . . . can't wait for the weekend!
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